LE WEEKEND

...included a screening of "A Miracle in Milan" and "Umberto D." The latter is too heartbreaking to talk about. The former is a very gentle and complex meditation on poverty, and should be required viewing for the Occupy Wall Street Movement (does anyone know if there is a film series there in the park?) and its critics. It begins with a baby found in a cabbage patch and ends with a group of disenfranchised Milanese flying on broomsticks. I found this essay by director Vittorio de Sica illuminating. Especially this part:

[A Miracle in Milan's] content is humanist, but its inspiration, the climate in which the characters evolve their way of thinking and behaving, and their very fate itself, is more closely related to the legends of the North, to Andersen for example, than to the reality of our present-day Latin world. Here is no hymn in praise of poverty—as I read somewhere to my horror—nor any condemnation of riches...This is a fable, slightly wistful perhaps, but quietly optimistic within its poetic framework; if I may be allowed to give it such a name. Men and angels are to be found here, living on good terms together...Finally—to give life to this film of mine, I tried to find the meaning of a little word that likes to hide everywhere; it is goodness. I beg you to tell me if you find it here in these images, if you recognize it at least here and there.

While at the Hammer Museum we witnessed the painting over of Linn Meyers' labor-intensive exhibit (each swirl is composed of thousands of tiny lines) which closed this weekend. All of that work (14 hours a day for 12 days!), in minutes, vanished and hidden under a layer of white paint!

And then, a few days in San Diego with dear cousins, a hike to Torrey Pines, a soak in a hot tub and homemade oatmeal cookies. Genevieve, who is 7 years-old, has a very sophisticated sense of color and pattern. She whipped up an apron and headband.  The collages are especially dear. They are made on old envelopes that my mother-in-law gave her niece Tammy (and Genevieve's mother) when she was a little girl in Ohio. Tammy told me that, unlike her daughter, she was very conservative with and protective of her craft supplies, hoarding them and never using the special stuff. Which means now, 30 years later, her daughter has found a new use for them and blazes through the supply with abandon. Don't you remember that feeling of having "special paper"? Maybe the world can be divided into those who use and those who hoard it. I am definitely a hoarder. Which one are you?

SMALL BUSINESS CRUSH: MR. BODDINGTON'S

I was so honored when Jessie over at Mr. Boddington's asked me to contribute some calligraphy for their spectacular line-up of fall products. My fondness for Mr. Boddington's is well know to readers of this blog. Every time I get a package from them I'm consistently amazed at the unique, beautiful design and high-quality materials. Above: their chevron striped gift tags,  four design gift tags, and custom correspondence notes. Hop over to the site for more snaps of their incredible work. Thanks Mr. + Jessie!

LE WEEKEND

I've spent the last week battling a cold and medicating heavily to attend a few cultural events. This weekend: a concert by the countertenor Philippe Jaroussky, performing with Apollo's Fire, singing Handel and Vivaldi arias. It was Karen who first turned me on to Philippe while living in New York. "Why aren't you listening to anything while you do calligraphy?" she'd ask. (She is a supreme multitasker, and can often be found with knitting needles, on a treadmill, watching tennis on mute, with Philippe in the background, while pawing at an iPad). And so I'd spend the days with this extraordinary voice. How magical and rare is it to be in the presence of an artist bestowed with a divine gift. Capital D. Capital G. I love ~3:00, in the video above, when the conductor looks over at him with an astonished look, impossible to repress. The best part of the current tour is that all of the performances are at intimate college or church halls. Toronto! Boston! Ann Arbor!

And then, "Bitter Rice," the Italian neo-realist film in which Doris Dowling and Silvana Mangano practically set the screen ablaze.

And finally, watching the Patriots lose, sadly, but always laughing at running back BenJarvus Green-Ellis' nickname: The Law Firm. So much so that I requested this t-shirt for a holiday gift.

OCEAN + CAROUSEL

I rarely follow fashion given that for the better part of the day I commune with black ink. But these two Paris shows, by Marc Jacobs (for Louis Vuitton) and Karl Lagerfeld (for Chanel), are jaw dropping. The first unfolds on an all white carousel. The second at the Grand Palais-cum-bottom-of-the-sea. Is this what all the fuss is about? Because if so, I think I get it now. Check out the Sartorialist's post with lots more photos.

{Image via The Sartorialist}

ANATOMY OF A PERFECT UMBRELLA

So about yesterday's umbrella, please note: the perfect curves between tips; the wooden and mother of pearl handle, and the way the tips fit snugly into a metal clasp at the bottom; the hand stitched, matching encasement around the runner; the subtle stitch anchoring the rib to the finished seam; the symmetry of stretchers and ribs; and, most importantly, the elegance with which it comes apart. (Also, this umbrella: with its gold, dusty pink and wood, very much reminds me of the Most Beautiful Wedding Dress in the World which Joanna mentioned today. I once inquired about the cost of this dress. It is exactly as expensive as you think it should be, times three. But worth every penny. My $4 thrift store umbrella is my stand in).

THANK YOU, MR. JOBS

Today it was raining buckets in Los Angeles. I popped in to the UCLA bookshop where students stood in line for cheaply made umbrellas that fell apart moments after they bought them. Damp, disappointed girls scurried back in with a mess of metal and nylon. "Um, I literally JUST bought this and it's, like, already broken." The cashier would say over and over again, not looking up and gesturing to the bin of identical umbrellas, "Just grab another one." Clearly, this would not do.

So I went to one of my favorite thrift stores. There, I found the platonic ideal of an umbrella-- vintage, handsewn, with a wooden and mother of pearl handle. The sturdy, smooth, beautiful beige cloth snapped into a taut bloom. Until now, I was unfamiliar with this universe of umbrellas. I eagerly started writing the blog post in my head. "Sometimes, we come across an object we never knew could be thoughtfully designed..." I waxed on about the stitching and curves and craftsmanship.

And then Steve Jobs died today, and I could not help but think that these events were somehow related. Because the elegy I would write for Steve Jobs would also begin "Sometimes, we come across an object we never knew could be thoughtfully designed..." We fall in love. There is no other way to describe it.

I was five years old. I'd just moved to Santa Fe and my parents took me to a Radio Shack. There stood a square gray box, just at my height. It looked like all of the other square boxes save for a rainbow colored apple on its face. It was electromagnetic. "Gray. Box. Rainbow. Delight." To this day, when I pass that Radio Shack, my heart races like it was the site of a first date. You had me at the rainbow, Steve, and you've had me ever since.

Wherever you are, probably in a heaven or a universe whose beauty we can't possibly imagine until, like the umbrella, we see it for ourselves, thank you.

(And a reminder to listen to Steve Jobs talk about how calligraphy influenced Apple's design here.)

CONSTELLATIONS

I'm not sure if I'm early or late to constellation themed paper. Above, a wedding I can't wait to share soon, with the escort seating chart printed by the ever-imaginative Mr. Boddington's (I'll be thinking of Jolene and J. & A. this weekend!). Below, cards I picked up at the Lowell Observatory in Flagstaff designed by Laura Palese and printed by Clarkson Potter. Each features a die-cut constellation. Finally, Nole at Oh So Beautiful Paper did a great round up of star-themed goodies here.

LE WEEKEND

This weekend: Santa Monica Farmer's Market, Venice's Abbott Kinney, Eggslut, Milk's Rocky Road ice cream sandwich, a Truffaut double feature at the New Beverly Cinema -- "The Soft Skin" with the beguilingly beautiful Françoise Dorléac who died tragically young. And lusting after wallpaper by CFA Voysey (pictured in Design*Sponge at Home -- above, Apothecary's Garden and Fool's Parsley). Also read a bit about the quite amazing snowshoe hare who, in the winter, grows a tremendous amount of fur on its splayed paws creating little snowshoes with which to skim the snow (I have never rooted so enthusiastically for a preyed upon rabbit).

TASTE, MENTORSHIP, DEADLINES + SCOTCH

"Nobody tells this to people who are beginners, I wish someone told me. All of us who do creative work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap. For the first couple years you make stuff, it’s just not that good. It’s trying to be good, it has potential, but it’s not. But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer. And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never get past this phase, they quit. Most people I know who do interesting, creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn’t have this special thing that we want it to have. We all go through this. And if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta know its normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one story. It is only by going through a volume of work that you will close that gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer to figure out how to do this than anyone I’ve ever met. It’s gonna take awhile. It’s normal to take awhile. You’ve just gotta fight your way through".

I came across this quote by Ira Glass on Joy's blog (via Melinda Josie via The Nouveau Romantics) and have been thinking about it these last few days. It is so irrefutably true. And yet I want to pipe up quietly, as someone who has fought and continues to fight this battle on various fronts, and say "there are other things that are, for me at least, important in addition to simply 'doing a lot of work.'" Namely: find a mentor, be a mentor, build a community, and have friends with whom you can talk about this fight. In person. With a glass of scotch.

Of course the formula for closing the gap is one part raw volume. But, personally, I can't imagine having the motivation, stamina or inspiration to keep producing that volume without having cheerleaders and being a cheerleader for others. So often, for people who've fought through, the default attitude seems to be "I fought on my own, so you must too" instead of "let me help you with your fight."

Understanding the alchemy behind building cooperative, team spirit has been stoked by listening to countless podcasts from the Harvard Business Review's IdeaCast recently where the concept of leadership is constantly discussed. "You can't win this contest without a lot of help," said Professor Warren Bennis, who is an expert on leadership studies (in episode 206 on the art of leading well). "Taste means really picking the right people." Bennis says a key characteristic of leadership is grace and generosity. Why is leadership so often discussed in business, but so rarely discussed when it comes to the type of creative work Glass talks about? Is it because creative work is by nature solitary? Are you able to produce volume in a vacuum? Should everyone fight the fight alone?